The Final countdown begins

So I had this terrible pain day before yesterday night, I got worried and called up my Doc and exactly told her how I felt, the intensity, irritation and everything else. She asked me to visit her the next morning and also advised that if needed I shold be admitted and get the baby out!
By morning the pain was gone and I was feeling better. Nevertheless I visted my Doc and she said that we still can wait for a week or so, so there I was shopping a few things - oil cloth, daipers, baby powder and yes a cute little "HOT PANT" for the baby!
Last whole week I was in a state of terrible depression and I thought I was eithjer over reacting...or maybe I didn't have much patience ...or better I was too selfish...but once I let the cat out of the bag I realized that I was not the "only one"! There are the others also who's been in this "guilt trip" for so long... and talking does help... at least we all knew what was pinching us and now we see things from a totally different side...
will blog about the "guilt trip" someother day...
as for now, I don't know when can I be online next...
maybe after the bay arrives...

My friends- REVISITED

Once I blogged about my friends and here's the link:
http://inxanadu.bihu.in/entry.php?u=inxanadu&e_id=608

That was a blog written in April 2006.
It was nice to go through the entire list but there are a few add ons and changes that needs to be done...

(...on Top of Mind recall basis!)
Janti - JANTI AFTER ALL THESE YEARS IS STIIL THE SAME TO ME!
Pranti - AND SO IS PRANTI!
Amar - NOW AMAR REALIZES THAT IT IS HIGH TIME TO GET MARRIED SO IS TRYING HARD TO GETTHAT LIST OF GIRL FRIENDS SHORTENED BUT EVERY TIME HE DOES IT HE FAILS MISERABLY!
Raja - AND YES! HE GOT MARRIED JUST A FEW DAYS BACK AND IS ADJUSTING TO HIS NEW RESPONSIBILITIES…
Munna & Esther -BUT ESTHER HAS LEFT GUWAHATI AND IS IN DIMAPUR NOW, THEIR RELATIONSHIOP IS IN STATUS-QUO.
Rana - SOME PEOPLE NEVER CHANGE & RANA IS ONE FOR SURE!
Anupama - DON’T KNOW WHAT HAPPENED TO HER…SHE INVITED NONE OF US TO HER WEDDING ALSO!
Nivee - LOST TOUCH
Farida - SHE’S STILL SUCKS…ESPECIALLY WHEN IT COMES TO JANTI!
Mickey - HE’S BUSY WITH HIS MBA, WE ONLY ORKUT NOW!
Reema - SHE’S LOST HER MIND SOMEWHERE….& I DON’T BLAME HER…THERE ARE A PLENTY OF REASONS FOR IT…
DEEP IS AS GOOD AS DEAD… HE IS IN EVERYONE’S “HATE LIST” FOR GOSSIPING SO MUCH!
Meren - HER WORK HAS OVER TAKEN HER LIFE!
Biplob - IN HIBERNATION AGAIN!
Bhaity & Mits -PRIORITIES CHANGE
Arupa - I STILL DON’T KNOW WHERE SHE IS, DIDN’T FIND HER IN ORKUT OR FACEBOOK TOO
Pranab....HE IS AGING FAST AND IT REFLECTS IN HIS ATTITUDE
Manashi & Sam - THEY STILL ROCK!
Indrani - I AM STILL HUNG OVER FROM OUR LAST CONVERSATION!
Dimpi & Sanjeev -NOT MUCH IN TOUCH
Lobita - SHE’S CRAZIER NOW!
Priyanka - WE HAVE BONDED STRONGER THAN ALL THESE YEARS EVER
Suro - STILL THE SAME
Dhyan - HE ‘S A BUSY BEE NOW
Boon - HE SUCKS!

The Delhi Times - Part V

I had a lousy boyfriend all for myself while I was in Delhi!
He was a slimy, disgusting and greasy character who supposedly was the guy I was seeing!
First thing first, looking back to those days I still curse, ridicule and poke my brains to find out what were the reasons which made me jump into this relationship in the very first place!
Looks?
Attitude?
Personality?
AWWWWWEEEE GAWWWWWWWWWWD!
He had none!
What did this guy have in him that attracted me?!
I mean he was such a terrible kisser too!!!
Anyways that’s beside the point.
More importantly this boyfriend of mine made my already hectic life all the more miserable.
He would suspect me with every male species, he would make me “gift” him things (read shirts, trousers…. All those “end of season” sale stuff), he would literally live on my expense!
All my friends directly or indirectly would advise me to snap ties with him and they said “sooner the better”… but the bastard and sucker that he was, I don’t understand how he read my mind. Every time I withdrew myself, he’d at his romantic best! He would do his best to woo me… make me feel special and wanted!
I remember once Silver & I were going back to Delhi in the North East Express and we both decided that we should make a trip to Goa to do away with the agonizing Delhi winters. As we planned the Goa trip I completely forgot about my lousy boyfriend and reality struck me only when we reached Delhi! I asked him straight, “Are you interested to go for a vacation in Goa? If you are then please get your tickets done!”
And the guy did pile on with us!
But then I truly believe in destiny….
Had it not been for him, I’d never meet Nirav with whom I fell in love left right and centre… got married and have no regrets!